Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Of Pink and Tea and Chocolate

It doesn't come as a surprise to anyone that I'm a girlie girl.
I've spoken about it often.
It's also not news to anyone that I live in a houseful of guys.
Gentlemanly (sometimes), raucous, never-a-dull-moment, what-will-they-think-of-next? guys.
I love them.  I over-the-top love, love, love them.
Yet...

God, in His goodness and grace, also placed me in close relationship with girls. 
I have dozens upon dozens (hundreds?) of daughters that have come through our youth group.
Girls I meet for coffee...lunch...movie nights; girls I get to disciple and grow with; girls I get to point to Christ.
I also have dear, dear friends with daughters; friends who have graciously shared their daughters with me and brought me into their girlie circle.

So perhaps I shouldn't have been so surprised when my dear friend, Nichole, spoke to me months ago and asked me to do a tea for her daughter's 16th birthday. 
But I was. 
I was awed and humbled and grateful. 
I was reminded that God sees me...sees my heart...sees my desires. 
And He used my dear friend to selflessly share, not only her daughter, but a milestone event in the lives of both of them.


Cake Pops, Rich Chocolate Trifles, & Sugar Cookies

Chicken Salad Tea Sandwiches, Ham & Apricot Pinwheels, Chocolate Chip Scones, Banana Muffins with Cream Cheese Frosting, Fruit Skewers

Far left corner of the table: Chilled Strawberry Soup
 


Beautiful Mom and Daughter
 
The lovely guest of honor
 
I've had the joy of watching her grow up since she was 3. 
 
My precious friend, Nichole ~
Thank you for sharing your heart, your life, and even your daughter with me. 
It was a day I will treasure always, just as I treasure you.

5 comments:

Unknown said...

I know for a fact that you have been a huge blessing in the lives of many, many girls. Janan and Emily talk about you often and how you have blessed them. And, although I haven't been with you nearly as much, you are a blessing to me through these blog posts! I will also never forget how I was so graciously included in Prom Alternative junior year. That is a memory I'll never forget.

You are an amazing woman, and God has given you a mother's heart with which to bless so many, boys and girls alike.

Heather said...

So, my friend, what are you doing in 14 years, 6 months? Can I book you for a little someone's Sweet 16? The food looks amazing ... the decor is beautiful ... you have such a gift!

Nikki said...

Thank you for your sweet words, Jaimie.

And Heather: Yes, definitely yes. ;) Thanks, friend!

Leslie said...

What a beautiful event! I love your heart and how you so freely pour it into others! You are a blessing!!!

Love
Leslie

PS Wish you were closer b/c Rebecca would love something like this for her sweet 16 which will be here before I know it!

Kim said...

I love beautiful things and you are soo good at creating them! What a lovely tea!