Celebrate Life

Birthdays have a way of making us pause...reflect...give thanks. I have to admit that now, even as a 30-something wife and mom, I love birthdays. It’s not so much about the gifts...though I have to admit, gifts are always fun, too! But I love my birthday, because as I said, it’s a reminder of God’s blessings in my life.

I love spending the day with those I love and those who love me. I enjoy feeling nestled in the warmth of their love. I’m thankful for the selfless, generous hearts that are developing in our boys. I give thanks that in watching their daddy, our boys are learning how to lavish love upon their mom...and someday, their wives. I’m grateful for all the surprises: friends who unexpectedly arrive on my doorstep to express their love; breakfast out with my favorite men; a delicious birthday dinner complete with Cappuccino Torte; and sweet birthday calls, emails, and cards that brighten my day.

This particular birthday causes me to be especially grateful for the gift of life. Just 3 days ago, while my husband and I were out of town, we received the devastating news that our 43-year-old friend had quietly passed away in his sleep. His precious wife awoke to find that her husband was gone.

In the past, our friend had told his wife that if anything ever happened to him (not that it would, he said), he wanted my husband to officiate at his funeral. Knowing that was his wish just brings tears to my eyes. And so, on my birthday today, we celebrated life in another way. We celebrated eternal life. ‘Cause you know what? As wonderful as it is to be surrounded by loved ones and celebrate this earthly life that disappears like a vapor, it is far grander to gather with believers to celebrate the eternal life we have in Jesus.

As friends and loved ones gathered to pay tribute to this larger than life man today, we celebrated his life and the vibrancy with which he lived it. We encircled his dear wife in love, prayer, and support as she grieves the loss of her soulmate. And with confidence, we reminded one another that we don’t grieve as those who have no hope, for our friend had placed his faith and trust in Jesus. He’d received the free gift of eternal life that Jesus offered Him, and we rejoice, knowing that he is seeing Him face to face.

So while I’m thankful to celebrate another year of life...the celebrations, the gifts, the loved ones...I’m thankful anew for the eternal life I have in Jesus. I’m thankful that while I was a sinner, He paid the penalty of my sin. I’m overwhelmed that He provided a way for me to come to Him. And I thank Him for the assurance that one day I’ll be with Him forever in heaven. There could be no greater gift.